You have been told to eat more protein. Nobody has told you how much, or what that actually looks like on a plate at seven in the evening when you have just walked through the door and two people want feeding. So you guess, you assume you are probably fine, and you are almost certainly not.
This is the single most common gap I see when someone shows me a normal week of their eating. Not sugar. Not carbs. Not the glass of wine on a Friday. Protein. It is the thing that makes a diet work while you are losing fat, and it is the thing most busy people quietly skip because it takes slightly more effort than toast.
The short answer: a range, not a magic number
General published guidance for someone who is training regularly and wants to build or hold onto muscle lands somewhere around 1.6 to 2.2 grams of protein per kilogram of bodyweight per day. That is the range most sensible sources converge on. It is a range because people are different, not because anyone is being vague.
So if you weigh 80kg, you are looking at roughly 130g to 175g a day. If you weigh 65kg, roughly 105g to 145g. Pick a number in the lower half of that range and hit it consistently, rather than picking the top of the range and missing it every day. Consistency beats precision here by a distance.
Two useful adjustments. If you are carrying a lot of body fat, base the calculation on a weight closer to where you are heading rather than where you are now, otherwise the number gets silly. And if you are in a calorie deficit, aim for the higher end rather than the lower end, because protein is doing more work for you when energy is scarce.
Why more protein when you are trying to lose fat
There are three reasons, and none of them are complicated.
- It keeps you fuller. Protein is more satiating than carbohydrate or fat for most people. A meal built around a proper protein source holds you until the next meal. A meal built around bread and a bit of cheese does not.
- It protects muscle. When you lose weight you lose some mix of fat and lean tissue. Eating enough protein, and lifting something heavy a couple of times a week, tilts that mix in your favour. That is the difference between looking smaller and looking better.
- It is hard to overeat. Nobody has ever accidentally eaten 400 extra calories of grilled chicken. Biscuits, crisps and cheese are a different story.
The muscle point matters more than people realise, especially past forty. Muscle is what keeps you strong, keeps your metabolism from drifting down, and keeps you able to carry a child, a bag of compost or your own suitcase without a two day recovery. Losing weight without protecting muscle is a bad trade.
Why most people under eat it without noticing
Almost everyone I work with eats a decent amount of protein at dinner. Chicken, mince, salmon, whatever it is, dinner is usually fine. The problem is the other two thirds of the day.
Breakfast is toast, cereal or a coffee on the way out. Lunch is a sandwich, a wrap or whatever was left over. Both of those land somewhere between five and fifteen grams. So by six in the evening you have banked maybe twenty five grams and you need another hundred and twenty before bed, which is not happening.
Fix breakfast and lunch and you have solved most of the problem without changing dinner at all. That is the whole strategy. It is not glamorous and it works.
What 30 grams of protein actually looks like
That is what the free consultation is for. We talk through your goal, your history and what would realistically fit your week.
Numbers on a page are useless until you can see them as food. Roughly speaking, each of these gets you in the region of 25 to 35 grams:
- A chicken breast, about the size of your palm and roughly 150g raw
- Two tins of tuna, or one tin plus a couple of eggs
- 170g of Greek yoghurt plus a scoop of whey or a handful of nuts and seeds
- Four large eggs
- 150g of cooked lean mince, beef or turkey
- A salmon fillet
- One scoop of whey protein in water or milk
- 250g of cottage cheese
- A block of firm tofu, about 200g, or 150g of tempeh
- Two slices of decent ham plus a chunk of cheddar, if you are eating standing up in the kitchen
Aim for one of those at each main meal and something similar as a snack, and an 80kg person is basically there. That is the whole system. Four anchors a day.
Build the meal around the protein, not the other way round
Most people plan a meal by thinking about the carbohydrate first. Pasta night. Jacket potato. Rice. Then protein gets added as an afterthought, in whatever quantity happens to be in the fridge.
Flip it. Decide the protein first, then add the carbohydrate and the vegetables around it. Same meal, same faff, roughly the same time at the hob, but now the plate does what you need it to do. This is one of the first things I change with people when they start working with me one to one, because it costs nothing and it changes everything downstream.
A practical version: keep three cooked protein sources in the fridge at all times. A batch of chicken thighs, a tray of hard boiled eggs, a tub of cooked mince or lentils. Then every meal becomes an assembly job rather than a cooking job.
Easy protein for people with no time
You do not need to cook more. You need better defaults. These are the ones that survive real life:
- Greek yoghurt. Big tub, buy it weekly. Add frozen berries and a spoon of honey and it is a breakfast or a pudding.
- Eggs. Boil a dozen on a Sunday evening while you are doing something else. They keep in the fridge all week.
- Tinned fish. Tuna, mackerel, sardines. Unfashionable, cheap, ready in ten seconds.
- Cooked chicken from the supermarket. Yes, it costs more than raw. It also gets eaten, which raw chicken in the freezer does not.
- Whey or a plant protein powder. Not essential, genuinely useful. It is food in a bag, not a supplement in the mystical sense.
- Frozen prawns. Defrost in cold water in five minutes, straight into a stir fry.
- Cottage cheese. Better than its reputation, especially with black pepper and something crunchy.
- Higher protein breads and wraps. A small upgrade on something you already eat every day, which is exactly the kind of change that sticks.
Common questions I get asked
Do I need a shake? No. It is a convenience, not a requirement. If you find hitting your number hard on work days, one shake solves a third of the problem for about a minute of effort. If you would rather eat real food, eat real food.
Is there a limit per meal? You will read that your body can only use twenty or thirty grams at a time. For practical purposes, ignore this. Spreading protein reasonably evenly across three or four meals is a sensible habit, but eating fifty grams in one sitting is not wasted.
Is high protein bad for my kidneys? For people with healthy kidneys there is no good evidence that these intakes cause harm. If you have any existing kidney condition, or you are on medication, speak to your GP before making a significant change to your diet. That is not me covering myself, it is genuinely the right call.
Can I do this as a vegetarian? Yes, but it takes more planning. Dairy, eggs, tofu, tempeh, lentils and a plant protein powder will get you there. Harder, not impossible.
How to change this in the next seven days
Do not overhaul everything. Pick one meal, the weakest one, and give it a protein anchor. For most people that is breakfast. Swap toast alone for eggs on toast, or add a tub of Greek yoghurt. Do that every day for a week and change nothing else.
Then do the same with lunch the week after. Add chicken to the salad, or tuna to the jacket potato. Two weeks, two changes, and you have probably added sixty grams a day without ever opening a food diary.
If you want to know whether you are hitting the number, track your food for four or five days. Not forever. Just long enough to see the shape of your week. Most people find the answer surprising, and once they have seen it they never need to track again.
If you want someone to sort this out with you
This is the sort of thing that sounds simple written down and gets complicated when it meets a real week with school runs, late meetings and a fridge that is not cooperating. Nutrition coaching is included in everything I do, and it is built around how you actually eat rather than a meal plan you will abandon by Thursday. No banned foods, no weighing every meal.
I train people one to one from a private setup in Cuckfield, and I work with clients from Haywards Heath and Balcombe who are usually here in five or ten minutes. Everyone starts with a free, no obligation consultation, where we look at your week honestly and work out what is worth changing first. You can get in touch here or read more about how I coach before you decide.
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